Breakup, Feelings, Las Vegas, Party, Travel, USA

Post Birthday Depression

Encore Beach Club, Las Vegas

Encore Beach Club, Las Vegas

Well the attention is over, the good wishes are said and its time to return to reality. The following pictures were taken last year during my birthday celebration in Las Vegas. I had an amazing time, but still everything that goes up must come down. All the happy times, good moments must end sometime. Right now I’m feeling a Post Birthday depression. It’s obvious to feel this way. I miss my ex, I truly do. But what I miss the most is the company of being with someone. I am going against the rebound rule. I need to learn to be by myself. I need to learn to love myself.

You can imagine yourself in the picture, of if you have gone to the Encore Beach Club, you know its a height of emotions. You will not feel lonely because you are around so many people, but what happens when your alone and feel that emptiness? How long is this emptiness going to last? Is there a time limit you will get this feeling? I need to stop thinking these questions and begin new hobbies. I wish to feel like myself again.

Encore Beach Club, Las Vegas

Encore Beach Club, Las Vegas

I would love to hang out with my ex, but I know if I see him it would just be harmful for me. If you analyze the photographs every single person have different thoughts, personalities, hobbies and goals in life. This means that you are not alone in the world, many people are feeling the way you are doing. You just need to suck it up and be strong, no one will do it for you. I will not fall into seeing him again, I am a strong human being and these are just emotions.

If I stay strong, you better stay strong as well. We are not alone in this situation, I have my readers, followers and friends. These emotions are normal, its like quitting smoking, you are craving that cigarette. Can I compare my relationship to an addiction to nicotine? Maybe this is just an obsession that I have with my ex. I need to begin my new life and be strong. Remember there are many people in this planet, you are not alone.

Group of Brits at Encore Beach Club, Las Vegas

Group of Brits at Encore Beach Club, Las Vegas

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Attention, Eiffel Tower, Feelings, Paris, Picnic, Positivity, Travel, Wine

Social Media Attention, a new treatment to soothe a breakup

Eiffel Tower 2014

What do thoughts come to mind when you see the Eiffel Tower? Can you imagine all the pictures that have been taken of the Eiffel Tower? It’s imposible to know how many pictures have been taken or paitings done inspired by it. Every single person that I know and you may know who traveled to Paris, have taken a picture of it. This reminds me of the importance of getting attention from social media. After breaking up, there is a search for acceptance and attention of your followers on social media. It may not matter to you, but if you relate to it, did it help?  Do you feel better that your accepted through all the social media applications. It may soothe your breakup but not overcome it.

Thats why I chose this picture, I took at the Eiffel Tower back on two thousand fourteen. It was a magical moment, there had been preparations all day for a perfect picnic. I recommend a bottle of french white Sauvignon and crab salad with crackers. The weather was gray and cloudy. There were families, group of students, tourist from many parts of the world and even locals.

Eiffel Tower

There are no rules on how to get over a breakup. If social media attention is a remedy to soothe a breakup, well do it. After you breakup, the connection to another person is missing. You have said goodbye, left the relationship. There is no one else to judge you. You are the Eiffel Tower, you are strong, iconic and transcendental. Even though buildings or situations may cover part of you, you can still see a part of it. The important fact is to stay true to yourself and follow your heart and mind.

I chose the pictures to be gray because I ran into many troubles today. Many obstacles showed up today, some issues woke up anger inside me. There were negative thoughts and words said today. But at the end of the day, this is a process, there is no right or no wrong answer. It is always best to take positive or negative things as they come. Never try to hide or evade, face them face to face. This is a process, its like flipping a coin, you don’t know the outcome.

A smile can change the day, and today a random person smiled to me, it was an old lady that I saw at a grocery store. So I began sharing a smile whenever it was appropriate. Relating to the interpretation of the pictures of the Eiffel tower with todays topic. I have fallen into that category, I have taken several pictures with the Eiffel Tower.

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