Love is a word that means the same thing in every language, but does the meaning of the word evolve in time? I saw this postcard at Jardin Majorelle inside the former residence of Yves Saint Laurent in Marrakech. I felt attached to it, because it had my birth year and the design of it. The past couple of days have been memorable and pure fun. I didn’t have to think of no one else, the outcome was going to be an adventure. I met so many different people, hanged out with new and old friends. I experienced different types of love from a lot of people. It’s always good to have people around you when your going through a breakup. Friends that you met while you were going in college, friends that you met when you were 5 years old and others that grew up with you. The best feeling during my birthday weekend, was to feel loved by who I was and my personality.
There is a feeling of desperation during a breakup but it always go away. I remember something that my mother always told me, no one will love you like you love yourself. I must admit, I knew this all the time but after this weekend I finally applied it in my life. I began loving myself, I am a pretty cool guy. I forgot how fun I can be without the pressure of categorizing myself in a negative manner. I enjoyed my birthday and I may have done some minor mistakes, but everyone makes them. There is no right or wrong way to go through this. Again, this is a process.
Being single is a whole new experience. When is it ok to meet someone? Does the rebound situation work? Is my ex dating someone else? Many questions come to mind. Many people give you advice but its your choice to answer your own questions how ever you please. Still, during my situation I believe I need to just have fun and learn to love myself and be single. After this weekend I received affection, attention, and pure love. But, I also received insight into how love has evolved. Love is something that it will have nothing negative in context but it does change. Experiences, decisions, choices in life make you love differently.
You need to love yourself to gain strength and find what is your true happiness. Don’t feel ashamed of anything that is done. Always keep in mind that your exploring yourself. You are being that beautiful blue villa, always keep in mind to share love and be true to yourself. No one will love you, like you love yourself.